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Arleen Atienza
People are mostly staying indoors since last year to stay safe from the pandemic. While some states are more relaxed with the restrictions, social distancing and avoiding unnecessary going out is still a safe option for everyone. The sudden, massive changes in our lives brought by the virus took a toll on our mental health and wellbeing. It has caused feelings of loneliness, anxiety, boredom, and stress. Don’t fret because there are a lot of ways to fight these negative feelings. More than ever, we need to focus on self-love and care deliberately. Want to take good care of yourself more? You can choose from the ideas below on how you can look good and feel good. Create a routine. If you are working from home, creating a routine can ensure a work-life balance. This tip will help you insert activities that can make you feel good in a day. Set your alarm and wake up early. Get dressed, and exercise. Take breaks from work. Finish work on a designated time so that you can allot time to do things that give you happiness, like spending time with your loved ones, playing with your dog, watching your favorite series, or reading a good book. Routines and schedules let you avoid overworking and can give you some structure in an uncertain period. Dress up and look your best. Looking good is an instant fix to feel good! Staying at home doesn’t mean you cannot fix yourself to look great. Put on the clothes that make you feel good, put on a little makeup, and style your hair. Looking good will surely improve your mood and can instantly boost your confidence. Find time to exercise. No matter how busy you get, make sure that you allocate time to exercise. Exercise does not only release happy hormones, it also impacts our skin! Because exercise improves blood circulation, it keeps the skin looking healthy, promotes collagen production, and stimulates new skin cells. Exercise can be your secret to glowing, youthful, and clear skin. Take care of your body. You can’t look good and feel good if you do not take care of your body. Make sure that you can give your body the tender loving care it needs. Drink at least eight glasses of water daily, get enough rest and sleep, eat healthy food, and use natural ingredients for your skin. Your body will surely be thankful for the care you give it, and it will keep you healthy and strong. Treat yourself. Is there something you long to buy as a reward for yourself but always hesitating to do so? Go ahead and treat yourself with self-care gifts! An occasional treat for yourself is a good form of self-care. Whether it is a sumptuous meal you have been craving, a relaxing massage, or a bag or jewelry you have been eyeing, do what makes you happy as long as you are not hurting anyone. It would be best if you treat yourself once in a while, especially in these trying times. Enjoy nature. Nature has a way of making us feel good and mesmerized with its beauty. Maximize and enjoy nature for an instant uplifting mood. You can walk to the nearby park and immerse yourself in nature. Breathe fresh air and bask in the sunshine outside. If you are fortunate to live near the sea or a mountain, take time to get lost in the beauty of nature. Socialize. Practicing social distance doesn’t mean that you cannot socialize with your family and loved ones. Connecting with people is now easier with the power of technology. Schedule a video call with your loved ones, especially those you haven’t talked to for a while. You can even organize an online pizza or wine party for that catch-up time with them. You will not realize that time passed by so fast because you enjoyed talking and laughing with your family and friends. Learn something new. Feed your mind and expand your horizon. This technique can make you proud of yourself for constantly being a work in progress. You can learn a new skill, hobby, or language! There are many ways to do this- you can enroll in an online course, learn by yourself by following a tutorial video, read a book, or ask someone to teach you. Be kind to yourself. Lastly, do not be too hard on yourself. Handle pressure with grace. There are things that you can’t control, and there will always be people who would not like you. That’s okay. Just continue to be good and shine bright! Key Takeaway Love should start with you. As they say, you cannot give what you don’t have. In this crazy world, don’t forget to find time to love and take care of yourself. That is the best way to look good and feel good.
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Jennifer McGregor
As 2021 is now in full swing, it’s time to start shaking off the COVID vibes and look ahead to how you can live your best life again in the coming months. Holistic health and wellness isn’t just about eating well and exercising, it’s about caring for your whole self, from head-to-toe - brain included! Reclaim Your Physical Fitness Many people have spent the past several months in stretchy clothes, from the comfort of our couches, binge-watching movies and old TV series. While we can give ourselves a pandemic pass for those behaviors, it's time to get up and get moving again. This might include joining a gym or investing in home exercise equipment. According to Humana, you can even ease yourself into a new routine with a low-key type of exercise regimen that includes activities like walking, hiking, biking, or even streaming exercise classes in your own living room. The key is to get moving, which will have a positive impact on your physical, mental, and emotional health. Take Care Of YOU Many of us are going through our closets and wondering what still fits and what’s still fashionable after a year of living and working primarily from home. It might be time to take a pass through your closet and determine what does and doesn't stand the test of time, and keep only the items that make you feel good about yourself. You may be able to sell some of your higher-end clothing online or donate good-condition outfits to a local women's shelter or clothing charity. According to Vogue, the pandemic lock-down has actually changed the way people perceive traditional “business wear,” so check out the latest fashion trends as part of your wardrobe purge. Enjoy A Luxurious Break If you're comfortable going to a spa, and are able to do so safely, give yourself permission to indulge in some head-to-toe self-care. That might include a massage, facial, or other favorite therapeutic treatments. If you're not ready to go out quite yet, you can still re-create a spa experience at home. Essential oils like sandalwood or eucalyptus paired with fluffy towels, candles, some soothing instrumental music, and a bit of seclusion can give you the pampering you need to revive and refresh your spirit. Mind Your Emotional Health When we talk about physical health and wellness, we sometimes forget that the mind is part of that body. That's to say that mental and emotional well-being is just as important as your overall physical health. If you've been feeling low or have anxiety, you're certainly not alone, but this is an issue you need to address. You may want to have a conversation with your primary healthcare provider about getting outside assistance, or you may feel comfortable managing it on your own through relaxation techniques and meditation. Start A New Phase As we come out of the pandemic, many of us are looking for new ways to live our lives. If you've ever wanted to go back to school or start your own business, now is the perfect time to act. Investigate online business formation services to help you determine what might be a good structure for you if you're interested in exploring this option. If you live in the Midwest, for example, and want to incorporate, you could start with an online search for LLC Wisconsin. Not only can launching a new business be an exciting endeavor, it can also be a positive and life-affirming event. The last year or so has been a trying time for everyone around the globe, but as we start to re-enter the world, it’s a good time to prepare to hit the ground running, and do so in top form. Having an optimistic mental and emotional outlook, caring for yourself, and looking for ways to make yourself happy and healthy can have a positive impact on this next phase of life! If you find yourself struggling with mental health issues, don’t wait to reach out for help. Contact the National Alliance on Mental Illness at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Among college students, mental health issues are prevalent. Recent statistics highlight the fact
that 50% of students rate their mental health as below average or poor, while 30% reported trouble with school work because of a mental health issue. Depression or anxiety, substance use or eating disorders are common among college students for a handful of reasons, including the pressure they are put under to perform and the transition away from a built-in support system from family. Regardless of the type of mental health issue at play for a college student, taking care of one’s self in college and beyond should be a high priority. Fortunately, college students have several ways to help cope with mental health concerns, both on campus and off. If you are struggling with mental health issues, seek help as soon as possible. There is no need to suffer alone. Mental Health Challenges College Students Deal With Although mental health challenges among college students vary widely from one person to the next, depression, anxiety, substance use disorder, and eating disorders are the most prevalent. An estimated 44% of college students in America report symptoms of depression. These symptoms include feelings of hopelessness or prolonged sadness, sleeplessness, loss of interest in social activities, and fatigue that results in a loss of motivation. Depression can be triggered by several different factors, including a transition away from family or adjusting to a new lifestyle on campus. Anxiety is another common mental health challenge among college students. Feelings of being overwhelmed impacted 85% of college students in a recent survey, due in part to high stress levels. The pressure to make new friends, balance social and school activities, and determine a career path can generate anxious feelings quickly among college students. Drug and alcohol use disorders can also rear their ugly head in college. The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism recently reported that nearly 20% of college students meet the criteria for alcohol use disorder, meaning they drink to excess regularly. This has a serious impact on physical and mental health, and makes achieving goals in college a challenge. Eating disorders are also common among college students, although this is a more predominant issue among women. An eating disorder may involve binging and purging, or extreme dieting combined with excessive or unhealthy working out. Like substance use disorders, eating disorders can wreak havoc on one’s personal and academic life. Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health In College When mental health challenges like depression, anxiety, substance use or eating disorders are present and impacting a student’s life, steps should be taken to help ease the issue at hand. This starts with understanding that mental health issues are not something to be ashamed of, nor should getting help be an embarrassing task. College campuses are doing more than ever to provide support for students and their mental health throughout their years at school, including offering free support groups, resources for therapy, and access to mental health professionals both on and off school grounds. Also, college students can take the following steps to improve their mental health. Taking care of your physical health – Having a steady routine of exercise and a balanced diet can go a long way toward both physical and mental health. Studies show that these simple but important aspects of daily life have a significant impact on minimizing the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and even substance use disorder. Take a break – college is a high-pressure environment, and without a break from it all, students can develop mental health issues. Planning breaks from campus altogether, or a respite from studying here and there, are necessary tools in combatting mental health challenges. Get support – whether through friends, family, or a mental health professional, having a strong foundation of support is necessary when mental health issues arise. Don’t be afraid to seek out the support you need from those around you. Set realistic goals – whether academically or personally, having achievable goals is necessary for keeping the stress of college at bay. If you’re unsure if your goals are realistic, speak with a coach or a counselor on or off campus and adjust as needed over time. Keep track of your finances – Since the cost of college isn’t getting any cheaper, it’s important to set a budget as a student and have awareness of your finances so you can plan ahead and don’t have any surprise financial emergencies that might induce stress. The Bottom Line Throughout your college years, it is crucial to focus some of your energy on keeping your mental health in good shape. Although it may not be possible to prevent challenges such as depression, anxiety, substance use, or eating disorders from appearing in college, there are several things you can do to help combat these issues. From maintaining good physical health and keeping goals in check, to seeking out the support you need from those around you or professional sources, mental health issues do not have to consume your life. Understand the symptoms of mental health issues for yourself and others close to you, and know you aren’t alone in getting the help you need as a college student. -- Andy Kearns is a Content Analyst for LendEDU and works to produce personal finance content to help educate consumers across the globe. When he’s not writing, you can find Andy cheering on the new and improved Lakers, or somewhere on a beach. Thomas TruelsonWhat’s perfection? Who is perfect? What does it mean to be perfect? And, why does perfection leave me inherently disappointed? These questions I’ll be attempting to address throughout this blog post as this time of the semester and the year, with everyone comparing themselves to each other. The most “wonderful time of the year,” is also the time of year with grades coming out and the holiday season where your “favorite” uncle asking why you haven’t accomplished the X, Y, Z thing that your cousin has.
Living in a world where we’re constantly bombarded with images of the perfect life on social media and the constant price of comparison has left me with a taste of dissatisfaction in my mouth. When I’m bored, or let’s be honest, when I’m avoiding awkward elevator conversation, I scroll through Instagram and Facebook. There I find myself comparing my life to people that I barely know anymore and wondering ‘Why can’t I have what they do?’ “Why aren’t I good enough to be like them?” Then, I’m back into my typical spiral: Thinking about the regrets I have in life, how I could have been like ______ or had ____ if only _____, and eventually I tire myself out or snuggle up to the bag of Oreo’s I keep for my monthly (okay, weekly) breakdown. What if I told you that I’ve found a way to slow down the spiral? All I do is say to myself, “Perfectionism is the highest form of self-abuse,” and I pause. Let that sink in. Repeat. I then remember that I’m abusing myself by constantly comparing myself to others for being what I perceive to be perfect. Our society has found a way to make insecurity a currency. Don’t like yourself? You can change anything you want about yourself, for a price, and for some it’s the price of likes or followers. Don’t like others? Don’t worry, you can hate everyone else and still have a huge ego, just like our president. It’s funny because the times I feel myself most honestly connected to others is when I’m being my imperfect self. Yet, I go to social media to try to feel connected, why? The real question I’m afraid to ask: Can I be happy if I’m not perfect or have a perfect life? To be honest, I’m not sure the answer which terrifies me. Will I always be grasping for something more and something that is so unrealistic, something that’s perfect? And how will I know if I actually obtain it? However, it seems like the most vulnerable thing that we can do is to live imperfectly. The more we are willing to be vulnerable, the more we build connections with others, and isn’t that where truly happiness lies? So, I guess this is my challenge to all of my fellow perfectionists out there: Live imperfectly as best as you can so that you can start letting your true self be seen and you can finally feel like you truly belong. Because SHOCKER you do. You belong. Find your folx. Be honest with them and yourself about who you are, then you’ll have your happy imperfect life. |
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