People are mostly staying indoors since last year to stay safe from the pandemic. While some states are more relaxed with the restrictions, social distancing and avoiding unnecessary going out is still a safe option for everyone.
The sudden, massive changes in our lives brought by the virus took a toll on our mental health and wellbeing. It has caused feelings of loneliness, anxiety, boredom, and stress. Don’t fret because there are a lot of ways to fight these negative feelings. More than ever, we need to focus on self-love and care deliberately.
Want to take good care of yourself more? You can choose from the ideas below on how you can look good and feel good.
Create a routine.
If you are working from home, creating a routine can ensure a work-life balance. This tip will help you insert activities that can make you feel good in a day. Set your alarm and wake up early. Get dressed, and exercise. Take breaks from work. Finish work on a designated time so that you can allot time to do things that give you happiness, like spending time with your loved ones, playing with your dog, watching your favorite series, or reading a good book. Routines and schedules let you avoid overworking and can give you some structure in an uncertain period.
Dress up and look your best.
Looking good is an instant fix to feel good! Staying at home doesn’t mean you cannot fix yourself to look great. Put on the clothes that make you feel good, put on a little makeup, and style your hair. Looking good will surely improve your mood and can instantly boost your confidence.
Find time to exercise.
No matter how busy you get, make sure that you allocate time to exercise. Exercise does not only release happy hormones, it also impacts our skin! Because exercise improves blood circulation, it keeps the skin looking healthy, promotes collagen production, and stimulates new skin cells. Exercise can be your secret to glowing, youthful, and clear skin.
Take care of your body.
You can’t look good and feel good if you do not take care of your body. Make sure that you can give your body the tender loving care it needs. Drink at least eight glasses of water daily, get enough rest and sleep, eat healthy food, and use natural ingredients for your skin. Your body will surely be thankful for the care you give it, and it will keep you healthy and strong.
Is there something you long to buy as a reward for yourself but always hesitating to do so? Go ahead and treat yourself with self-care gifts! An occasional treat for yourself is a good form of self-care. Whether it is a sumptuous meal you have been craving, a relaxing massage, or a bag or jewelry you have been eyeing, do what makes you happy as long as you are not hurting anyone. It would be best if you treat yourself once in a while, especially in these trying times.
Nature has a way of making us feel good and mesmerized with its beauty. Maximize and enjoy nature for an instant uplifting mood. You can walk to the nearby park and immerse yourself in nature. Breathe fresh air and bask in the sunshine outside. If you are fortunate to live near the sea or a mountain, take time to get lost in the beauty of nature.
Practicing social distance doesn’t mean that you cannot socialize with your family and loved ones. Connecting with people is now easier with the power of technology. Schedule a video call with your loved ones, especially those you haven’t talked to for a while. You can even organize an online pizza or wine party for that catch-up time with them. You will not realize that time passed by so fast because you enjoyed talking and laughing with your family and friends.
Learn something new.
Feed your mind and expand your horizon. This technique can make you proud of yourself for constantly being a work in progress. You can learn a new skill, hobby, or language! There are many ways to do this- you can enroll in an online course, learn by yourself by following a tutorial video, read a book, or ask someone to teach you.
Be kind to yourself.
Lastly, do not be too hard on yourself. Handle pressure with grace. There are things that you can’t control, and there will always be people who would not like you. That’s okay. Just continue to be good and shine bright!
Love should start with you. As they say, you cannot give what you don’t have. In this crazy world, don’t forget to find time to love and take care of yourself. That is the best way to look good and feel good.
As 2021 is now in full swing, it’s time to start shaking off the COVID vibes and look ahead to how you can live your best life again in the coming months. Holistic health and wellness isn’t just about eating well and exercising, it’s about caring for your whole self, from head-to-toe - brain included!
Reclaim Your Physical Fitness
Many people have spent the past several months in stretchy clothes, from the comfort of our couches, binge-watching movies and old TV series. While we can give ourselves a pandemic pass for those behaviors, it's time to get up and get moving again. This might include joining a gym or investing in home exercise equipment. According to Humana, you can even ease yourself into a new routine with a low-key type of exercise regimen that includes activities like walking, hiking, biking, or even streaming exercise classes in your own living room. The key is to get moving, which will have a positive impact on your physical, mental, and emotional health.
Take Care Of YOU
Many of us are going through our closets and wondering what still fits and what’s still fashionable after a year of living and working primarily from home. It might be time to take a pass through your closet and determine what does and doesn't stand the test of time, and keep only the items that make you feel good about yourself. You may be able to sell some of your higher-end clothing online or donate good-condition outfits to a local women's shelter or clothing charity. According to Vogue, the pandemic lock-down has actually changed the way people perceive traditional “business wear,” so check out the latest fashion trends as part of your wardrobe purge.
Enjoy A Luxurious Break
If you're comfortable going to a spa, and are able to do so safely, give yourself permission to indulge in some head-to-toe self-care. That might include a massage, facial, or other favorite therapeutic treatments. If you're not ready to go out quite yet, you can still re-create a spa experience at home. Essential oils like sandalwood or eucalyptus paired with fluffy towels, candles, some soothing instrumental music, and a bit of seclusion can give you the pampering you need to revive and refresh your spirit.
Mind Your Emotional Health
When we talk about physical health and wellness, we sometimes forget that the mind is part of that body. That's to say that mental and emotional well-being is just as important as your overall physical health. If you've been feeling low or have anxiety, you're certainly not alone, but this is an issue you need to address. You may want to have a conversation with your primary healthcare provider about getting outside assistance, or you may feel comfortable managing it on your own through relaxation techniques and meditation.
Start A New Phase
As we come out of the pandemic, many of us are looking for new ways to live our lives. If you've ever wanted to go back to school or start your own business, now is the perfect time to act. Investigate online business formation services to help you determine what might be a good structure for you if you're interested in exploring this option. If you live in the Midwest, for example, and want to incorporate, you could start with an online search for LLC Wisconsin. Not only can launching a new business be an exciting endeavor, it can also be a positive and life-affirming event.
The last year or so has been a trying time for everyone around the globe, but as we start to re-enter the world, it’s a good time to prepare to hit the ground running, and do so in top form. Having an optimistic mental and emotional outlook, caring for yourself, and looking for ways to make yourself happy and healthy can have a positive impact on this next phase of life!
If you find yourself struggling with mental health issues, don’t wait to reach out for help. Contact the National Alliance on Mental Illness at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.
Among college students, mental health issues are prevalent. Recent statistics highlight the fact
that 50% of students rate their mental health as below average or poor, while 30% reported
trouble with school work because of a mental health issue. Depression or anxiety, substance
use or eating disorders are common among college students for a handful of reasons, including
the pressure they are put under to perform and the transition away from a built-in support
system from family.
Regardless of the type of mental health issue at play for a college student, taking care of one’s
self in college and beyond should be a high priority. Fortunately, college students have several
ways to help cope with mental health concerns, both on campus and off. If you are struggling
with mental health issues, seek help as soon as possible. There is no need to suffer alone.
Mental Health Challenges College Students Deal With
Although mental health challenges among college students vary widely from one person to the
next, depression, anxiety, substance use disorder, and eating disorders are the most prevalent.
An estimated 44% of college students in America report symptoms of depression. These
symptoms include feelings of hopelessness or prolonged sadness, sleeplessness, loss of interest
in social activities, and fatigue that results in a loss of motivation. Depression can be triggered
by several different factors, including a transition away from family or adjusting to a new
lifestyle on campus.
Anxiety is another common mental health challenge among college students. Feelings of being
overwhelmed impacted 85% of college students in a recent survey, due in part to high stress
levels. The pressure to make new friends, balance social and school activities, and determine a
career path can generate anxious feelings quickly among college students.
Drug and alcohol use disorders can also rear their ugly head in college. The National Institute on
Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism recently reported that nearly 20% of college students meet the
criteria for alcohol use disorder, meaning they drink to excess regularly. This has a serious
impact on physical and mental health, and makes achieving goals in college a challenge.
Eating disorders are also common among college students, although this is a more predominant
issue among women. An eating disorder may involve binging and purging, or extreme dieting
combined with excessive or unhealthy working out. Like substance use disorders, eating
disorders can wreak havoc on one’s personal and academic life.
Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health In College
When mental health challenges like depression, anxiety, substance use or eating disorders are
present and impacting a student’s life, steps should be taken to help ease the issue at hand.
This starts with understanding that mental health issues are not something to be ashamed of,
nor should getting help be an embarrassing task. College campuses are doing more than ever to
provide support for students and their mental health throughout their years at school, including
offering free support groups, resources for therapy, and access to mental health professionals
both on and off school grounds. Also, college students can take the following steps to improve
their mental health.
Taking care of your physical health – Having a steady routine of exercise and a balanced
diet can go a long way toward both physical and mental health. Studies show that these
simple but important aspects of daily life have a significant impact on minimizing the
symptoms of depression, anxiety, and even substance use disorder.
Take a break – college is a high-pressure environment, and without a break from it all,
students can develop mental health issues. Planning breaks from campus altogether, or
a respite from studying here and there, are necessary tools in combatting mental health
Get support – whether through friends, family, or a mental health professional, having a
strong foundation of support is necessary when mental health issues arise. Don’t be
afraid to seek out the support you need from those around you.
Set realistic goals – whether academically or personally, having achievable goals is
necessary for keeping the stress of college at bay. If you’re unsure if your goals are
realistic, speak with a coach or a counselor on or off campus and adjust as needed over
Keep track of your finances – Since the cost of college isn’t getting any cheaper, it’s
important to set a budget as a student and have awareness of your finances so you can
plan ahead and don’t have any surprise financial emergencies that might induce stress.
The Bottom Line
Throughout your college years, it is crucial to focus some of your energy on keeping your
mental health in good shape.
Although it may not be possible to prevent challenges such as depression, anxiety, substance
use, or eating disorders from appearing in college, there are several things you can do to help
combat these issues. From maintaining good physical health and keeping goals in check, to
seeking out the support you need from those around you or professional sources, mental
health issues do not have to consume your life.
Understand the symptoms of mental health issues for yourself and others close to you, and
know you aren’t alone in getting the help you need as a college student.
Andy Kearns is a Content Analyst for LendEDU and works to produce personal finance content
to help educate consumers across the globe. When he’s not writing, you can find Andy cheering
on the new and improved Lakers, or somewhere on a beach.
January is a cruel month. a bleak, cold-hearted month. The bright rainbow colors of Christmas have faded. And the dark, desolate month ofJanuary is upon us - a month of depression,'despair and desperation.A month when sadness creeps into one's soul and lingers and festers until one start thinking of the need to escape, to leave life behind, because January is a suicidal month.But before you start making plans, remember these words: if you commit suicide. it steals life from the living and you destroy the dreams of those that love you. Your loved ones will suffer agonizing, penetrating pain that will pierce their hearts and souls.Your death will be so incredibly devastating that your loved ones lives will never be the same again.Their wounds will never heal, their broken hearts will never mend, their tears will never end.SO STAY! If you are thinking of suicide, STAY - your family and friends need you and depend upon you. If you are planning on killing yourself, STAY - your family and friends love you and care for you. You bring joy and happiness to more people than you realize.So, just STAY for one more day. When tomorrow comes,STAY for one more day. Please STAY one more day and the day will arrive when light will silently come through the darkness, hope will slowly spring from the depression.STAY and the world around you will gradually change from black and white to a beautiful bouquet of bright colors - the sun will shine and and you'll be happy you stayed .For the best days of your life wait to be discovered.
What’s perfection? Who is perfect? What does it mean to be perfect? And, why does perfection leave me inherently disappointed? These questions I’ll be attempting to address throughout this blog post as this time of the semester and the year, with everyone comparing themselves to each other. The most “wonderful time of the year,” is also the time of year with grades coming out and the holiday season where your “favorite” uncle asking why you haven’t accomplished the X, Y, Z thing that your cousin has.
Living in a world where we’re constantly bombarded with images of the perfect life on social media and the constant price of comparison has left me with a taste of dissatisfaction in my mouth. When I’m bored, or let’s be honest, when I’m avoiding awkward elevator conversation, I scroll through Instagram and Facebook. There I find myself comparing my life to people that I barely know anymore and wondering ‘Why can’t I have what they do?’ “Why aren’t I good enough to be like them?” Then, I’m back into my typical spiral: Thinking about the regrets I have in life, how I could have been like ______ or had ____ if only _____, and eventually I tire myself out or snuggle up to the bag of Oreo’s I keep for my monthly (okay, weekly) breakdown.
What if I told you that I’ve found a way to slow down the spiral? All I do is say to myself, “Perfectionism is the highest form of self-abuse,” and I pause.
Let that sink in.
I then remember that I’m abusing myself by constantly comparing myself to others for being what I perceive to be perfect. Our society has found a way to make insecurity a currency. Don’t like yourself? You can change anything you want about yourself, for a price, and for some it’s the price of likes or followers. Don’t like others? Don’t worry, you can hate everyone else and still have a huge ego, just like our president. It’s funny because the times I feel myself most honestly connected to others is when I’m being my imperfect self. Yet, I go to social media to try to feel connected, why?
The real question I’m afraid to ask: Can I be happy if I’m not perfect or have a perfect life? To be honest, I’m not sure the answer which terrifies me. Will I always be grasping for something more and something that is so unrealistic, something that’s perfect? And how will I know if I actually obtain it? However, it seems like the most vulnerable thing that we can do is to live imperfectly. The more we are willing to be vulnerable, the more we build connections with others, and isn’t that where truly happiness lies? So, I guess this is my challenge to all of my fellow perfectionists out there:
Live imperfectly as best as you can so that you can start letting your true self be seen and you can finally feel like you truly belong. Because SHOCKER you do. You belong. Find your folx. Be honest with them and yourself about who you are, then you’ll have your happy imperfect life.
For most of us, happiness means feeling good, having a positive self-image, and succeeding in our personal and professional lives. Without good mental health, however, those are difficult to achieve. Mental health determines how you think, feel, deal with stress, and interact with others every day. It’s a definite health priority, but maintaining good mental health requires mindfulness and a determination to address your need for self-care, no matter how busy you are.
We all need to feel that we belong, that we’re liked and that the people we care about actually value our friendship. So, take good care of your relationships — stay connected with friends, be supportive of others in your social circle, and show an active interest in your friends’ interests. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to celebrate a friend’s good fortune or to show support when things don’t go well for them. Sometimes, just lending a sympathetic ear is enough. Being part of a strong emotional support group requires a sincere willingness to be helpful, but the long-term mental health benefits to you are well worth the effort.
Everyone needs to relax during the course of a hectic week. You can’t ignore the need to unwind if you’re to maintain good mental health, so set aside time for activities that give you joy. Emphasize simple practices that don’t require a heavy financial or time investment. Meditation, a massage, a hot shower or an hour of yoga will help you work off stress. You don’t need a gym membership or pricey workout equipment to achieve good mental and physical health.
Better Sleep Through Technology
Sleep is crucial for your mental well-being. Getting at least seven hours of sleep a night has a direct bearing on your mood and ability to focus at work. If you struggle getting enough sleep, technology can provide an affordable solution. Sleep buds and white noise machines are effective aids that fit nicely within your budget, especially if you take advantage of discounts and savings such as using a BestBuy promo code when shopping online.
Science has discovered a close connection between hygiene and overall health. Practicing good hygiene is inexpensive, helps prevent illness, and benefits you socially, professionally and psychologically. It’s a simple proposition: If you look good, chances are you’ll feel good too, so pay attention to your appearance every day. Be sure to see a dentist for regular cleaning, which will help you avoid expensive dental work later on.
Exercise is one of the best ways to practice self-care. Physical activity gets the blood pumping, engages the mind, and activates endorphins in the brain, which boosts your mood. If you’re watching your money, exercise can provide an inexpensive means of reducing stress and staying fit. Exercise serves multiple purposes: It alleviates stress, strengthens the muscles, and keeps the cardiovascular system in good condition. Exercise not only improves your mental outlook, but it’s also self-empowering and gives you a sense of control over your well-being.
Emphasize healthy eating at home with foods and ingredients from each of the basic food groups, especially vegetables, fruits, and whole grains. Cooking healthy meals will help you save money by not eating out, and you’ll feel good about your appearance. It’s a great way to manage your weight and avoid the expense of medical care for problems like diabetes and obesity, which often result from an indifferent and unhealthy diet.
Poor mental health can be very costly. Counseling and the effects of depression on your mental condition can place a definite strain on your budget. Practicing simple, inexpensive self-care habits will help you maintain a positive mental outlook and a healthy lifestyle.
With finals approaching, it's easy to let stress get the best of us. Here are some tips to avoid throwing your mental health on the back burner.
- Set *realistic* goals, and write them down: This allows you to become more motivated in order to cross things off your list, leaving you with the feeling of accomplishment.
-Study groups: Find yourself getting distracted by your phone while studying and then becoming disappointed in how much you didn't get done? Find a few buddies or a group of people in the same class who will study with you. You're less likely to be on your phone while actively studying with others, allowing you to get the most out of your designated 'study time.'
-Do NOT work in bed: Although it might be convenient and comfortable, separate your work and sleep space. Your brain ties emotions to places, so if you're stressed while working on homework in bed, you may not be able to get sleep later when you need to.
-Take advantage of campus programs: UW-Madison offers a variety of different programs through UHS and other facilities, take advantage of them!
-Keep in touch with family and friends: Things will change both at home and in your school life, so take time to be involved in the lives of the people you care about. This will not only give you a healthy distraction from studying, but it will make your parents happy too(;
-Don't be afraid to ask for help: Do this from the start. As soon as you don't understand a topic in the course, go to office hours. Do NOT wait until the night before the test to email your TA or professor at 9:30 pm because they most likely won't respond.
-Don't be afraid to ask for help pt. 2: There are many people on campus who struggle with mental health, so do not feel embarrassed or ashamed to reach out to someone, UHS, professors, friends, for help. Mental illness is a treatable problem, but only if you address it first.
-Realize you can't do everything: Class, work, studying, clubs, etc. all take A LOT of time, but the reality of it all is that sooner or later your body will get run down, as you will most likely sacrifice sleep in order to get more things done. Focus your time doing the things that need to get done (school work) or the things you genuinely love and forget the rest!
Being a college student, I think we can all relate to having hectic schedules that make it difficult to follow through with healthy habits like exercise and eating right. I am now in my third semester of college and am still figuring out how to balance self-care and academics which has been more difficult than I imagined. This semester has been the first semester that I have regularly exercised when I am stressed and have been more mindful of what I put into my body. The impact on my happiness and positive self-image have been huge! Rather than turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms, I instead go for a run when I feel overwhelmed which always makes me feel so much better and gives me more energy throughout the day. Finding an exercise you genuinely enjoy such as biking around the lake, yoga or doing cardio at the gym is necessary because if you don’t enjoy doing it, it may cause more negative feelings. It’s also important to be forgiving towards yourself when it comes to exercise! Having the correct mindset of exercising in order to feel healthy and letting yourself know that it’s okay if you have an off week helps cultivate positive emotions towards working out thus making it more enjoyable. It’s easy to grab something unhealthy and fast when we are always in a hurry but changing your diet to be more nutritionally balanced will have a huge impact on maintaining a positive self-image and providing you with more energy! From my experience as an undergraduate, exercise and eating well have had a huge impact on my attitude and energy levels. Being forgiving towards myself and framing these habits in a healthy way has positively impacted my academics and my life in general and I hope my insight allows for others to do the same.
Transitioning to college is a scary time with a lot of changes. Although a lot of great things happen, it can also be really overwhelming. I remember not even considering how difficult it could be. I was just so excited for all the new things I could experience and people I could meet. At various times throughout freshman year I would go through phases of times where I was really content, but then something would happen and I wouldn’t know how to get help. I didn’t know how to deal with the exponentially growing feeling of stress or who to turn to. Although I met a lot of great people, at times I felt like I didn’t have any genuine close connections. As the year went on, and I got more involved in clubs and activities, I started to feel like I more so have found my place. Now that I have been in college longer, I realize that it is important to not only try to put yourself out there in situations, but also understand that it is okay to have your bad days. Despite having to juggle a lot more things than you ever will have previously, just remember that there will be ups and downs. I understand how easy it is to feel irrelevant in such a large campus, but just try and find your niche or place to call your own. Whether that be a club like NAMI, or a park bench in the botanical garden near the chemistry building. All in all just know times will be hard, but you must just find things that make you happy!
In my experience, the stigma surrounding mental health issues is more silent than loud. It appears during subtle moments like disregarding one’s own pain, making jokes about certain disorders, and denying people validation for their feelings. I feel the root of the problem is that there is a legitimate lack of knowledge or awareness regarding the suffering associated with mental illness. That explanation feels almost like a cop-out, but it would be unfair to assume every individual that contributes to stigma has a vindictive motivation behind it; sometimes the reaction to people’s behavior is beyond what they imagined and intended. It’s more important, then, to continue widespread campaigns of normalizing mental health to eradicate that excuse. To contribute to that mission in my own way, I’d like to share how I view mental health. I think of mental health as resilience-- the quality of recovering successfully and quickly, and returning to a well-adjusted state after sustaining stress. Being well-adjusted, to me, means contentment in the face of everyday stressors. One of my favorite ways to conceptualize mental health is as an analogue to physical health; mental health means withstanding the invasion of infections (stressors) before they manifest as illness. People are born with different vulnerabilities to certain mental ailments just as they are for physical ones. As well, there are illnesses in both domains one would not want to let “run its course”-- like cancer, a broken bone, major depressive disorder, personality disorders, etc. So, this necessitates a more in-depth focus on mental health since it, arguably, presents the same risks to health as physical health. This can't happen if people's fear of being judged outweighs their desire to get healthier. Overall, I think the battle to eliminate stigma is a battle fought by individuals on a day to day basis. Catch people making mistakes and correct them, nicely. Be mindful of yourself and how you treat yourself. Believe and validate friends when they share difficult feelings with you. Ask for help. Promote asking for help. Share your own conceptualization of mental health with as many people as you can. Just don’t let the conversation die down. I know I won’t.